tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post127492935618529583..comments2024-01-31T20:47:28.121-08:00Comments on The Playroom: Patience is a virtue.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-2765956910173223642011-11-03T09:16:48.445-07:002011-11-03T09:16:48.445-07:00thanks, Tymber! and, yes, Fetlife is a great site...thanks, Tymber! and, yes, Fetlife is a great site!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-10429079766446333872011-10-31T22:29:17.139-07:002011-10-31T22:29:17.139-07:00There is a stereotypical misconception about phone...There is a stereotypical misconception about phone sex operators. The general (mis)consensus is that we're bored out of our minds, mindless moan-and-groaners who can't wait to get off the phone.PhoneSexhttp://www.livesexcalls.co.uk/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-86847459423997380812011-10-29T20:20:42.116-07:002011-10-29T20:20:42.116-07:00I'm so glad I found this site! i've been l...I'm so glad I found this site! i've been looking for resources to deal with this issue of how do I go about meeting a Dom or anyone related to what I am finding is what has been missing in my life for a long time. It's funny because I came about this realization by reading some really good BDSM novels. It's so interesting how life can be sometimes. I started out reading Twilight and ended up rethinking my entire sexuality and finding what has been missing! The path is a funny one, but I won't bore you with it now.<br /><br />I live in NYC so I'm sure there are a group of people as well as a person who I can find to start this journey. It's also good to know about groups for people with chronic health issues, especially chronic pain as I've been suffering from serious back and hip problems since I'm 19 (my bday just past and you'll see from my email address when I was born, so you'll know how long this has been going on for!). As the years and multiple back/hip/knee surgeries have progressed finding a comfortble way to have vanilla sex has become a challenge, so I've been worried about how I can possible explore my kinky side without becoming a cripple!<br />OK. Enough, MJB! <br />I am going to check out Fetlife to start and see where it leads me. If anyone whoe reads this has suggestions for NYC, preferably Manhattan, i'm all ears.<br />Thanks for "listening"<br />MJB<br />msmjb65 AT gmail DOT commsmjb65https://www.blogger.com/profile/07511939554975024019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-86620764802836767532011-10-28T11:43:59.289-07:002011-10-28T11:43:59.289-07:00I like this article! Thanks for the reminder. I ...I like this article! Thanks for the reminder. I wish more newbies would take more time to learn about others. Negotiation is one I see people neglecting quite often.La Crimson Femmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18267705622599900796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-55923998016295130052011-10-28T06:01:16.757-07:002011-10-28T06:01:16.757-07:00Very sound advice, and escape plan and a safety ca...Very sound advice, and escape plan and a safety call are essential and not to be overlooked in the heat of ... discovery.J. P. Barnabyhttp://www.jpbarnaby.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-91969113766664046792011-10-28T05:53:07.836-07:002011-10-28T05:53:07.836-07:00Anon - Yes, there are several groups for chronic i...Anon - Yes, there are several groups for chronic illness. I'm a member of a couple of them for fibro and chronic pain. People involved in the lifestyle are everyday people outside of the kink. The kink might be a large part of them and who they are, but they do have vanilla lives and vanilla concerns. Believe me, if there's a will, there's a way. Hubby and Sir both make allowances during play when my body doesn't want to cooperate. And you might, like me, find play activities that actually help you feel better. Impact play helps my fibro pain because of the natural endorphin flood that helps stifle pain better than any drugs (and doesn't kill my liver in the process LOL).Tymber Daltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11580702194703813388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-35824387601389370482011-10-27T20:58:51.367-07:002011-10-27T20:58:51.367-07:00Tymber, that's wonderful advice. I've been...Tymber, that's wonderful advice. I've been wondering how to go about this for quite a while, and you've set my mind at ease on a lot of issues. I have been encouraged to go to Fetlife, and one of the things that was holding me back was a chronic illness, but I have been told that there is a group of members all in that situation. Thank you so much for sharing this information.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com