tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post4143530350476705113..comments2024-01-31T20:47:28.121-08:00Comments on The Playroom: "Real" men don't cause pain? Think again.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-18043952139236543722013-06-02T04:32:16.876-07:002013-06-02T04:32:16.876-07:00I just saw this. Helena, BDSM does NOT have to inv...I just saw this. Helena, BDSM does NOT have to involve any Dominance and submission. It comes in all varieties and from mild to super-mean and painful or humiliating, or whatever floats your boat.<br />It can just be S and m. It could be just bondage.Cari Silverwoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00950284353140027038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-40171381632093628492013-04-08T10:58:18.855-07:002013-04-08T10:58:18.855-07:00LOVE THIS POST!LOVE THIS POST!Kaylyn Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01439547954684971564noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-34430548186264748282013-04-08T10:26:50.070-07:002013-04-08T10:26:50.070-07:00You are so right.....so many people just don't...You are so right.....so many people just don't get it and have no urge to find out the truthAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12347790953841822473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-91697696559768290512013-04-07T13:36:11.537-07:002013-04-07T13:36:11.537-07:00Well said, Tymber.Well said, Tymber.Jan Grahamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05729732401790608016noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-17305010663775520832013-04-06T02:19:27.462-07:002013-04-06T02:19:27.462-07:00Thank you, Tymber! I agree. :) I really have to ho...Thank you, Tymber! I agree. :) I really have to hold my tongue when I hear "One true way" or anything close. I love pain and humiliation when I want it. There I said it! I know some people like things I don't and more power to them. Have fun, peeps! I respect your sexuality, but I expect mine to be respected as well.<br />It's not just with BDSM, though. People spout "One true way" stuff about pretty much anything they're passionate about. "Real horse people use a bit, not a hack-more." "A decent Christian doesn't dye their hair blonde, otherwise guys get confused and assume you're a slut." WHAT?! I'm not even joking about the WTFckery I've heard in my short life.<br />I just wanted to say, well said, Tymber! :)Zoey Marcelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03836436844060841895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-41305801896923328682013-04-05T19:13:43.565-07:002013-04-05T19:13:43.565-07:00Wonderful post. Totally agree! Thank you.Wonderful post. Totally agree! Thank you.Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16870089491451048446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-49615530281650945542013-04-05T15:09:59.307-07:002013-04-05T15:09:59.307-07:00nicely statednicely statedMimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12984647998504801706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-26508260467490878742013-04-05T15:05:34.718-07:002013-04-05T15:05:34.718-07:00People can and do have those conversations and exp...People can and do have those conversations and experiences in vanilla land. The relationship I'm in could not be described as BDSM by any stretch of anybody's imagination if only because I don't really submit and he doesn't really dominate. But we do like playing games and we definitely discuss what sort of pain I like and what is a pain too far for me, so to speak. And we both get a kick out of stretching the boundaries a bit. On the other hand, because the relationship is of the vanilla variety I don't think we'll ever really reach my limits or find out what they actually are. He doesn't have it in him to really hurt me. That is not a complaint though cause the way I see if, if he did have it in him he wouldn't really be him anymore and what would that do to my feelings for him? Sorry, I'm rambling because I can't quite find the words to say what I want to say.Helena Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17529886101156451591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-29406732302557206902013-04-05T14:37:57.998-07:002013-04-05T14:37:57.998-07:00fabulous post!fabulous post!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02583777957530873423noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-18253921557957078212013-04-05T14:14:11.466-07:002013-04-05T14:14:11.466-07:00YKINMK - Your Kink Is Not My Kink. -- So true. I t...YKINMK - Your Kink Is Not My Kink. -- So true. I think with BDSM the possibility exists for people to have truth-telling conversations. "I want this pain, but not that pain," etc. Wonderful when people can suspend judgement. I sometimes wish people could have those conversations in vanilla-land. Truth. <br /><br />Good post!Trilliumhttp://www.trillium-author.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-57813826946885987832013-04-05T14:11:05.166-07:002013-04-05T14:11:05.166-07:00*applauds Tymber**applauds Tymber*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-11092614842660337582013-04-05T14:03:42.981-07:002013-04-05T14:03:42.981-07:00Awesome job Tymber!Awesome job Tymber!Kathy L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/15150186925015956240noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-42085296809604436582013-04-05T14:00:51.835-07:002013-04-05T14:00:51.835-07:00Bring up any topic, religion, politics, how to mak...Bring up any topic, religion, politics, how to make French fries and someone will tell you the way to do it. The one, true way. Excellent for robots...not so much for people. And very lucky, that, too...or our books would be very, very dull.Kate Richardshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11266895320753860578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-53323729023813929962013-04-05T13:58:24.835-07:002013-04-05T13:58:24.835-07:00Right On Tymber!!!Right On Tymber!!!Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14416777884165304880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-429156142967093682.post-89895627325322420592013-04-05T13:55:52.457-07:002013-04-05T13:55:52.457-07:00Thank you for this! Thank you for this! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17625189925083556655noreply@blogger.com